Mitday

No more “we should hang out”

For groups that have been trying to have dinner since last summer. Create a plan, send the link, everyone paints the days they can make and Mitday picks the best one. No 300 messages in between.

Create a planYour friends don't need an account. Or excuses.

December 2026

Provisional winner: Saturday, December 19, 2026

Five example friends who, miraculously, all answered. Paint over it: tap a day or drag.

Sound familiar?

Someone suggests it, nobody commits, someone is “easy” and the plan dies at “let's play it by ear”. With Mitday the same group marks its days on one link and the best day falls out on its own, even if the easy one stays easy.

The usual lotAna, Berta, Carla, Dani, Edu
  1. AnaWe need to meet up, we haven't seen each other since summer
  2. BertaYesss. When?
  3. CarlaI'm easy
  4. DaniCan't do this weekend. The next one?
  5. BertaGot a wedding the next one
  6. EduWhat did I miss? It says 214 messages
  7. CarlaI'm easy
  8. AnaOk, let's play it by ear
  9. Three months later
  10. DaniHey, are we meeting up or what?

People used to manage it

Documentary proof that meeting up is possible. None of these groups had a group chat, and yet.

Picnic at Hagidera, Japan, 18th century. Six people, one date, zero messages.
Autumn, around 1789. Everyone came. Even the one who hears about everything last.
Picnic, 1716. Settled by letter, without a single “I'm easy”.
Ball in Charleville, 1950. The last group to settle a date on the first try.

Pictures: The Metropolitan Museum of Art (public domain) and State Library of Queensland (no known copyright restrictions).

Every group has one of each

If needed

The one who's “easy”

Now they prove it: “Can do”, “If needed” or “Can't”, painted day by day. Being easy about everything no longer counts.

Berta

The one who signs up for nothing

No need. Open the link, type a name, mark the days. Switching phones? There's a personal link.

LunchDinner

The “I can only do dinner” one

Pick whole days, slots such as “Lunch” and “Dinner”, or an hourly grid in their own time zone.

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The one who'd rather nobody knew they can't

You decide whether people see who can make it, only the heatmap, or nothing. Their secret is safe. You always see the full table.

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The one who hears about everything last

When you close the date, they get a notice with the event for their calendar. Let's hear the excuse now.

The plan won't make itself

We take you to the plan with the title already filled in. Your friends don't need an account.

Mitday